So I met this guy about four months ago, we exchanged numbers because we wanted to be FRIENDS, and we got kinda close. I have a boyfriend, he’s single but he likes someone I know, and we’re both "bestfriends". He’s ALWAYS in my business. If I post something on twitter like "**** this." I get a text from him 5 seconds later "what’s wrong bestfriend?" I usually say "nothing it’s fine" and he’s like "No. Tell me. I’m not leaving you." I mean, that’s great, he’s a good friend, but it’s almost obsessive. He gets my tweets sent to his phone, he gets my facebook statuses sent to his phone.. I’ll post something like "mallll (:" before I go to the mall and then he’ll be texting me "So you’re at the mall? I should come see you" when I didn’t even tell him I’m at the mall. And if I don’t text him back for like 30 minutes, he’ll send me another text "It makes me sad when you don’t text me back 
What else could you possibly be doing?" And I even tried completely distancing myself from him, one-word texts, sometimes not even talking to him at all because it’s freaking annoying, and HE’S STILL HERE AND MORE ANNOYING THAN EVER. He’s always on some sort of bullcrap like "you’re changing. this isn’t you." Like he knows me better than I know myself? Wtf is up with this kid? Why does he act like this and what should I do? I already blocked him on twitter.
I’m a mean person ? LOL , he gets my tweets and facebook statuses sent to his phone, and he NEVER backs off. People need space. Its not appropriate for him to be all over me all the time. Thank you <3
Help please ? He acts obsessed ?
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Jun
29
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it sounds like he likes you and yeah, in an obsessive way. just tell him that you wish for him to text you less. do it nicely, that’s the best way to go no matter how irritated you are. you could say something like "i need you to stop texting me as much, it’s getting expensive on my end" or "it’s taking up a lot of memory even if i delete some". idk, something like that.
i hope i helped and im sorry if i didn’t.
answer mine please?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110622172106AA7FEVU
if he texts "It makes me sad when you don’t text me back
What else could you possibly be doing?" text him telling him youre having sex with your boyfriend THAT is what you are doing
Just tell him to back the hell off or better yet have your boyfriend check this guy so he’ll quit acting completely crazy.
You sound really mean I mean it looks like he is just trying to be a good and caring friend and you’re being rude and just shutting him off in return…..feel sorry for the kid he sounds like a good person unlike you.
I had something along the lines of this problem, and he really doesn’t want you to leave. It sounds like he may be a little short on friends or self esteem and needs someone to stick with. The best way to deal with this problem would be to explain to him that you do have other priorities than just talking to him. Don’t be rude to him though because he will just respond with lots of clingyness. Theres not many ways to easily bring the subject on, so you kind of just have to start talking about it. a good way to start is with the fact that you feel like he follows you around too much, you might want to include little things like your a really great friend but i have other things to do and i feel like you spending too much time on me. If your nervous about hurting his feelings, you can always say that your boyfriend thinks that he talks to you too much, but that may cause other problems. It takes a lot of courage to turn away someone that is so atattched to you, but if you really feel suffocated by him it may be the best thing to do. However, remember that he may mean more to you than you realize, so dont completely cut him off in case you ever have the need to talk to him
Wow jeeez, it sounds like he likes you. Try talking to him about your bf or something. and about how happy you are together?