I need some advice on my relationship?

Ok me and my guy have been together for almost a year now. I love him very much. We have been through a lot of super hard things together. We also live together.

We had plans for this weekend, shopping and what not. Friday morning he wakes up and informs me that there was a show he wanted to go to that night, one I wasn’t old enough to attend (21+ and im 19). He then said that he would stay at his buddies house over night since the show would go late. He has done this before and I was cool with it. The thing was he told me that he would be back Saturday afternoon and we would go out for lunch and continue with our previous scheduled plans.

WELL, he isnt home yet and it’s Sunday morning. We don’t have cell phones so its not like I can call him but we have been keeping in contact on twitter and he was streaming last night on ustream.

I wouldn’t be worried or even upset but this is not the first time he didn’t come home when he said he was going to. Also, I just checked his friends on myspace and he has 2 females on there who i don’t know and live in the area that aren’t me (he has said that his myspace is for "business only" (he is a music producer) and up until recently there was no one outside of business on there). One of these females is an ex of his who was also just recently @ mentioning him on twitter saying "add me please" and "hmu i need a friend".

He also told me that he had unfollowed all of the porn stars he was following on twitter, and i find out that’s a lie.

Last night when we talked he said he loved me, and missed me and would be home today. He said not to worry because he is doing music stuff (that’s what he was doing last night when he was on ustream).

I know i should be able to trust him. And i do to a point. But all these red flags are popping up.

What do I do?

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  1. lean too Said,

    It is healthy for people in relationships to keep separate interests. However, that does not mean keeping separate lives. If you doubt this guy’s actions, thoughts, intentions, or his feelings for you than it is time to do one of two things: You can pack your stuff right now and move on with the rest of your life; or, You can continue to doubt what is true and what is not true. Either way if there is not total trust between you and yours than both of you will most likely be hurting each other and yourselves more. If you do, on the other hand, feel he is genuine – than bee cool and wait to see what happens. When the right person comes into your life, you’ll not doubt it for a second!

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