I asked my boyfriend, Ant, if he would ever get a MySpace, Facebook or twitter page. He said, "Maybe." A few days later I kept seeing on my timeline "such and such has added Ant as a friend." I asked him why he hasn’t simply mentioned to me that he already had a page. His reply was "because i just got it". I checked his timeline and it was true that he just got the page. My reply was a simple "oh." That is when he told me that his page was strictly business and that he would be putting information about his book on it. He is paying someone to promote his book and to maintain his page. I then said, "I don’t care..I only asked because I thought that you had lied to me about not having a page. As I said, I don’t care as long as the page isn’t being used to disrespect or play me. We can move on from this." His response was "Please don’t start. I have a page, so what?" I friended him and let it go…

A few days later, I received a private message from his page. The message said, "What’s up? This is Ant". Even though I was about 95% sure that his assistant had sent the message, I repelied "Hey babiii! How are you? " . A few days later I received a message from his page that was asking me "are you married?" etc. That is when I thought his assistant was taking the fake messages too far and I texted him to say that I had received a message from his page with the person saying that it was him. Sometime later I got a heated email from Ant asking me what was wrong with me. He wanted to know why I had put his personal business on his page even though he had told me that the page was for business. He told me to stay off of his page and to relax and stay away from b.s. Evidently, he does not view the page at all. He goes off of what the assistant tells him is there. Once he knew that I was ina position to talk, he actualy called me. He explained that I knew the page was for business and that I need to know when to set boundaries. He explained to me that people can take even the smallest amount of information and create gossip and rumors from it. He said that at this point in his life, he is just trying to get some sort of business going for himself and that he doesn’t have the mental energy to deal with gossip and rumors. I told him about the fake messages that I was getting and he said that he’s not really trying to stress over Facebook and that I should know that the messages aren’t from him. He then told his assistant to make sure that I couldn’t get on the page. lol

The only thing that has happened in our past is that when one of his Ex girlfriends found out that I was with him, she told me a bunch of lies about him. I questioned him about some of them and we didn’t talk for a while because of it. Other than that, nothing has happened. This is all so weird because he does have like pictures of himself on the page, along with information about his book and his assistant still posts fake messages.. She likes comments other people as him. I know that the messages are fake because I have been sitting with him when messages from him would pop up on the page lol

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